Bloggers note: This isn't a garden blog. Just getting some stuff off my chest after my recent mission trip to Haiti. Many will find it self righteous or toe stepping. Maybe it is. But it is honest and it is the way I feel. Maybe it will make you think.Watched a good video recently in Sunday School about "Caring for the sick." It was narrated by Kay Warren (Rick "The Purpose Driven Life" Warren's wife) and concerned mostly the world AIDS epidemic and how people just seem to turn a blind eye to the suffering and plight of those areas where AIDS (and for that matter overall health and malnutrition) is the worst. It was very moving and came at a time when I was emotionally raw from exposure to the plight of Haiti. The opening scene included a bunch of kids from Africa, and they held up one finger saying "You have one life, do something."
Kay Warren mentioned in that video that she wasn't any fun at parties anymore. She used to be, though. She used to be the kind who could cut up and converse about just about anything. She held her own in polite, trivial gibber-jabber about the weather, the game, the show the night before. Recently though, no one wants to talk to her much. Recently she is seeing through all of that. Seeing how idle chit-chat keeps us a safe distance from subjects that bother us, subjects that require something of us. I can identify with that. I see myself that way somewhat. I have come to believe recently that once we become aware of a need... a true need, we are accountable to that need.

A few weeks ago at this time I was flying to Haiti to begin what would become the most rewarding mission trip I have ever taken. Haiti was devastated by an earthquake on January 12th, 2010 and was the poorest country in the western hemisphere before the quake. To say that things were bad there wouldn't even begin to describe the scene. Having made three trips to the nation of Sierra Leone, one of the world's poorest two or three countries, I knew what to expect. Being there nine months after the quake tempered the effect of hundreds of thousands of lives lost in a matter of a few days. It staggers the mind if you stop to think about it. That is, if you stop to think about it. Who does? If you aren't thinking about "it," then what are you thinking about?
Now, "it" can be a lot of things. "It" can be world hunger or malnutrition, the AIDS epidemic in the third world, the suffering of war refugees, battered spouses, or children, victims of a tsunami or an earthquake. Whatever the "it," there is a human life suffering there. Suffering while another human life decides whether to buy a new overpriced Hollister shirt or Vera Bradley handbag; suffering while we decide which restaurant we'd like to go to eat overly large portions of food that just isn't that good for us anyway, and then eat it all. Suffering while we squander natural resources on cars that are too big and waste too much gas because we like NEW. Suffering. Have you ever really suffered? I haven't. I mean, I had a pretty meager upbringing; my budget was super tight in college, but I never suffered.

These days it seems that people confuse wants with needs and I am just as guilty as the next person. We trade in a perfectly good car for a new one because we need it, it fits our personality, we'll look good in it. We go places, do things, say things, and try things, all in an effort to live life to the fullest, make the most of our time, and leave it all here since we can't take it with us. But what are we doing for real human need. Jesus said "what does it profit a man to gain the whole world, and lose his soul?" What good is it for us to pursue our worldly wants as needs and have our neighbor suffering? I contend that no one can be truly fulfilled, truly content until they have made themselves aware of the needs and suffering of another and done something about it. All of our selfish pursuits are for nothing if we do not leave this world a better place than we entered it by being a servant to someone in need.
You have one life. When you get to the end of it, whenever that may be, do you want to have it said that you lived it all for you? You made the most of your time here on earth all for you? Like I said before, once you become aware of a need, you are accountable for it. You have one life. Make a difference. Do something.